Who do you get along with better

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Do you get along better with males or females?

Male
3
38%
Female
2
25%
Both
3
38%
 
Total votes: 8

RCM

Who do you get along with better

Postby RCM » Mon Jun 16, 2008 11:48 pm

So do you get along better with males, or females, I usually get along better with females, don't know why, they seem to care more for me then guys do!

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Re: Who do you get along with better

Postby alin0s » Mon Jun 16, 2008 11:52 pm

I definitely get along better with females in both the normal and disabled. But I do not get along well with normal guys.
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Re: Who do you get along with better

Postby RCM » Mon Jun 23, 2008 7:50 pm

alin0s wrote:I definitely get along better with females in both the normal and disabled. But I do not get along well with normal guys.

Yeah, I usually don't get along with normal guys either, just disabled ones! There's a few cases that I do get along with normal guys, but I've known them for years!

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Re: Who do you get along with better

Postby alin0s » Mon Jun 23, 2008 7:53 pm

RCM wrote:
alin0s wrote:I definitely get along better with females in both the normal and disabled. But I do not get along well with normal guys.

Yeah, I usually don't get along with normal guys either, just disabled ones! There's a few cases that I do get along with normal guys, but I've known them for years!


For some reason when it comes to normal guys. I only get along good with squishy guys. SInce most have learned to accept people for who they are because of their weight.
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Re: Who do you get along with better

Postby RCM » Mon Jun 23, 2008 7:54 pm

alin0s wrote:
RCM wrote:
alin0s wrote:I definitely get along better with females in both the normal and disabled. But I do not get along well with normal guys.

Yeah, I usually don't get along with normal guys either, just disabled ones! There's a few cases that I do get along with normal guys, but I've known them for years!


For some reason when it comes to normal guys. I only get along good with squishy guys. SInce most have learned to accept people for who they are because of their weight.


yeah, but with me, I really don't care how big and squishy they are, it just really depends on the person, and wether they are nice to me and accept the fact that I have trouble with some things!

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Re: Who do you get along with better

Postby alin0s » Mon Jun 23, 2008 7:57 pm

RCM wrote:
alin0s wrote:
RCM wrote:
alin0s wrote:I definitely get along better with females in both the normal and disabled. But I do not get along well with normal guys.

Yeah, I usually don't get along with normal guys either, just disabled ones! There's a few cases that I do get along with normal guys, but I've known them for years!


For some reason when it comes to normal guys. I only get along good with squishy guys. SInce most have learned to accept people for who they are because of their weight.


yeah, but with me, I really don't care how big and squishy they are, it just really depends on the person, and wether they are nice to me and accept the fact that I have trouble with some things!


I am just saying, that with the big squishy guys they tend to on average, at least for the people I know. Be nicer people. My theory is that with their weight they are made fun of a lot, so they decide to be more caring and understanding.
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Re: Who do you get along with better

Postby RCM » Mon Jul 14, 2008 3:46 pm

alin0s wrote:
RCM wrote:
alin0s wrote:
RCM wrote:
alin0s wrote:I definitely get along better with females in both the normal and disabled. But I do not get along well with normal guys.

Yeah, I usually don't get along with normal guys either, just disabled ones! There's a few cases that I do get along with normal guys, but I've known them for years!


For some reason when it comes to normal guys. I only get along good with squishy guys. SInce most have learned to accept people for who they are because of their weight.


yeah, but with me, I really don't care how big and squishy they are, it just really depends on the person, and wether they are nice to me and accept the fact that I have trouble with some things!


I am just saying, that with the big squishy guys they tend to on average, at least for the people I know. Be nicer people. My theory is that with their weight they are made fun of a lot, so they decide to be more caring and understanding.

That's very well possible Alin, I know when I was younger I was teased alot :( and look at me now, I'm happy and active!

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Re: Who do you get along with better

Postby alin0s » Mon Jul 14, 2008 5:56 pm

RCM wrote:
alin0s wrote:
RCM wrote:
alin0s wrote:
RCM wrote:
alin0s wrote:I definitely get along better with females in both the normal and disabled. But I do not get along well with normal guys.

Yeah, I usually don't get along with normal guys either, just disabled ones! There's a few cases that I do get along with normal guys, but I've known them for years!


For some reason when it comes to normal guys. I only get along good with squishy guys. SInce most have learned to accept people for who they are because of their weight.


yeah, but with me, I really don't care how big and squishy they are, it just really depends on the person, and wether they are nice to me and accept the fact that I have trouble with some things!


I am just saying, that with the big squishy guys they tend to on average, at least for the people I know. Be nicer people. My theory is that with their weight they are made fun of a lot, so they decide to be more caring and understanding.

That's very well possible Alin, I know when I was younger I was teased alot :( and look at me now, I'm happy and active!


What were you teased for? You are skinny as a rail :lol:
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Re: Who do you get along with better

Postby RCM » Mon Jul 14, 2008 7:13 pm

alin0s wrote:
RCM wrote:
alin0s wrote:
RCM wrote:
alin0s wrote:
RCM wrote:
alin0s wrote:I definitely get along better with females in both the normal and disabled. But I do not get along well with normal guys.

Yeah, I usually don't get along with normal guys either, just disabled ones! There's a few cases that I do get along with normal guys, but I've known them for years!


For some reason when it comes to normal guys. I only get along good with squishy guys. SInce most have learned to accept people for who they are because of their weight.


yeah, but with me, I really don't care how big and squishy they are, it just really depends on the person, and wether they are nice to me and accept the fact that I have trouble with some things!


I am just saying, that with the big squishy guys they tend to on average, at least for the people I know. Be nicer people. My theory is that with their weight they are made fun of a lot, so they decide to be more caring and understanding.

That's very well possible Alin, I know when I was younger I was teased alot :( and look at me now, I'm happy and active!


What were you teased for? You are skinny as a rail :lol:


LOL :lolfloor: Not for being skinny, I was teased for how I walk, AND how I acted when I was real young :mad:

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Re: Who do you get along with better

Postby krex » Thu Jul 17, 2008 3:00 pm

Females have always disliked me. Guys seem to get along better with me because I am less emotional and like to analyse things and have always been a tomboy and liked climbing trees, collecting bugs and rocks.

If there had been an optional for it, I would have chosen furry animals though. The ones I work with really, really like me. I have never had such enthusiasm from people who more or less just seem to tolerate me, not like me.
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Re: Who do you get along with better

Postby deathchibi » Fri Jul 18, 2008 7:00 am

i dont reallly notic gender unless comes up in discussion. so i get along with some of both :D

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Re: Who do you get along with better

Postby pakrat » Fri Oct 17, 2008 9:19 am

In real life, I tend to feel more awkward around females than around males, especially younger males and I find it easier to get along with people with AS. With other women, there often is a lot of competition.

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Re: Who do you get along with better

Postby Candice » Sat Nov 22, 2008 3:26 pm

I get along better with men in that women don't stop talking and some times you can't get a word in. Were as most men listen to me. NT's anyway. I did have a bf that was attention deficit. Sometimes he would tell me to shut up. He didnt have a very long attention span or frustration tolerance. Most men I find are really good listeners. Some women too but mostly I find men are easier to talk to and they dont do that bitchy snobby thing.
I have also found other women to be extremely jealous even when it comes to being friends with other females.
I have to admitt though I really dont like arrogant men or when they act smart ass and really immature. They think they are cool but I find them unattractive.


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